A Summary of David’s Life
David, king of Judah and Israel, is one of the most significant people in the entire Bible. His reign shaped the entire nation of Israel, and Jesus himself is known as the ‘Son of David.’ His story occupies the majority of the books of 1 and 2 Samuel in the Old Testament.
Early Life
David was born (c. 1040 BC) into an obscure family in the town of Bethlehem, in the Hebrew tribe of Judah. He was the great-grandson of Ruth, and the youngest of eight sons of Jesse. As a child, David’s father appointed him to keep the family sheep; during this time, David evidently developed great skill in music and fighting, since it was his custom to kill any lion or bear that disturbed the flock.
The shepherd years were interrupted suddenly when Samuel, the great judge and prophet of Israel, showed up in Bethlehem to offer a sacrifice. Samuel reviewed Jesse’s sons and then called for David, who was anointed as a future king of Israel in the presence of his family.
Interaction with Saul
Saul, king of Israel at that time, was rejected by God because of his disobedience. Saul began to experience spiritual oppression, and his court followers recommended a musician. David entered the court to play music for the tormented king, and quickly became the king’s armor-bearer.
David evidently alternated between life at court and life with the sheep. Eventually he ended up near the battlefield between the Israelites and the Philistines. When he heard a Philistine warrior, Goliath, insult the God of Israel, David determined to do something. He killed the giant, cut off his head, and was quickly hailed as a hero by the nation.
David’s popularity did not sit well with Saul. Even though Saul appointed him as a commander of the army, the king became jealous and eventually tried to murder David with his javelin. Saul’s son Jonathan, however, befriended David, and David married Saul’s daughter Michal as the king continued to make plots on his life. Even as he continued to wage successful war against the Philistines, David’s life was rescued by both Jonathan and Michal.
Finally, David fled the court, heading first to Nob and then southwest to the land of the Philistines. He visited the kingdom of Moab in the southeast, leaving his parents in the protection of that king, and then dwelt in the arid southern deserts of Judah. More than once Saul pursued him with armed men, but David continued to escape, even sparing Saul’s life when he had the opportunity to kill him.
David cultivated a friendship with Achish, the Philistine king of Gath. Achish made him the ruler of the city of Ziklag, and from this base, David continued to make raids against the enemies of Israel. Eventually, the Philistines prepared to make war against Saul. While David was away from Ziklag, a group of Amalekite warriors destroyed the village and captured the possessions and family members of David and his own followers. David responded by pursuing them into the desert, defeating them, and bringing back all the spoils of war.
King of Judah
Even as David was fighting to recover Ziklag, Saul and the Israelites were defeated in a stunning loss at the Battle of Mount Gilboa. Both Saul and Jonathan were killed, and David mourned when he heard the news. The leaders of the southern Israelite tribe of Judah responded by anointing David as their king; he became king of Judah (c. 1010 BC) at the age of 30 and reigned for seven years and six months.
Yet it was not a time of peace. To the north, the remaining Israelite tribes select Ishbosheth, Saul’s son, as their king. A civil war broke out between the northern Kingdom of Israel and the southern Kingdom of Judah. This continued until two men, Rechab and Baanah, assassinated Ishbosheth on his bed. When they brought his head to David, expecting gifts, David accused them of murder and had them executed.
King of Israel: The Years of Stability
With Ishbosheth removed, the leaders of Israel gathered together and anointed David to be king over a united kingdom. David would reign for 33 years over the twelve tribes. He conquered the city of Jerusalem from the non-Hebrew Jebusites, renaming it as the City of David. He rebuilt this city (also known as ‘Zion’), and established a diplomatic relationship with Hiram, king of the city of Tyre in the north. David continued the war against the Philistines, and he brought the Ark of God into the City of David.
David wanted to do more – he intended to build a temple of God in Jerusalem. However, the prophet Nathan recounted God’s Word to David: that David should not build a temple. Instead, God would himself bless David, providing him with a descendant whose throne would remain forever. After this, David continued to enjoy triumphs over neighboring nations, including Moab, Syria, and Edom. When he found a grandson of Saul – Mephibosheth – he showed kindness to the man.
King of Israel: The Years of Sorrow
David’s greatest years came to a sudden end when he fell into a scandal. While his army was away, David was relaxing at the palace. He happened to look out over the city of Jerusalem and saw a beautiful woman (Bathsheba) bathing. He brought her into the palace and committed adultery with her. In an attempt to cover his sin, he eventually murdered her husband, one of his most trusted military leaders, and married the now-widowed Bathsheba.
Nathan the prophet reappeared, condemning David for his sin. Suddenly filled with remorse, David repented with grief, crying out to God for mercy. Meanwhile, his child with Bathsheba died. Later, David had another child with Bathsheba, a child whom he named Solomon – the next king of Israel.
Yet the consequences of David’s sin would continue throughout the rest of his reign. A military victory over the Ammonites was soon forgotten when his son Amnon committed incestual rape against his daughter Tamar. Tamar’s brother, Absalom, determined to take justice into his own hands, and he responded by killing Amnon. Later, Absalom revolted against his own father. David and his trusted followers fled the capital, while Absalom moved into the royal palace and the royal harem.
Civil war broke out in Israel, leading to the defeat and death of Absalom. David was grieved to lose a son, but the turmoil was not over; another conspirator, Sheba, later made war with David. Sheba also ended up dead.
A three-year famine then weakened the Israelite economy. After this, David made successful war against the Philistines, but he sinned against God again when he determined to take a military census of the Israelite nation – an action strictly forbidden by God. The divine judgment was an outbreak of disease, killing tens of thousands of Hebrews. David repented, and the outbreak subsided.
In his last years, David married Abishag, a beautiful young Hebrew maiden. Adonijah, another of his sons, then tried to seize the throne, but David – though decrepit from age – intervened, ending the conspiracy and selecting Solomon as his successor. After giving words of wisdom and advice to his son Solomon, David died (c. 970 BC) and was buried in Jerusalem, the City of David.
Legacy
Despite his flaws, David was known as ‘a man after God’s own heart,’ the most pious of all Hebrew kings, and the standard by which every other Judean king would be measured. The prophecy of a king whose throne would endure forever fueled Messianic hopes among the Jews – hopes which were finally fulfilled in the coming of Jesus, the physical descendant and promised ‘Son of David.’
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I am a born again conservative Christain. David represents a problem to me in that he went against Gods concept of one man, one woman marriage. i believe he knew this, but he behaved as though God had never said it, and yet he is said to be after Gods own heart. What am I missing here? When he moved the Ark of the Covenant improperly, God punished him by killing one of his people.
God does NOT “wink” at our sin, nor does He make exceptions, or consider our “stature”. I am perplexed about this.
Hi, thank you for your comment. This is an important (and challenging) question. You are exactly correct that David went against God’s command, that God does not overlook sin, and that he does not consider our stature (have ‘respect of persons’ in his judgment against sin).
What we observe in the life of David is also clear in the lives of other biblical characters. God’s people are overcoming sin, gradually becoming more like him (‘sanctification’), but they still sin and have room for growth. Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob all disobeyed God on several occasions (and both Abraham and Jacob went against God’s intentions for marriage), but God intended to use them in his perfect plan.
God disciplines the believer for sin, but that discipline only exists for the purpose of growing his people and demonstrating to them his holy nature. Christians ought to fear God and his discipline, because God is serious about sin and will not overlook it. Most of the tragedies of David’s life can be attributed to his sin and its aftermath. Through them all, God disciplined David. He did not overlook the sin, but instead showed his holy anger against sin.
At the same time, David’s sins do not define him, just as believers today (who still, unfortunately, sin) are not defined by their sins (1 Cor. 6:11). The overall assessment of David’s life is that he was a man after God’s own heart. This does not mean that every action he did was godly, but that overall, this was the course of his life. Similarly, though the Christian sins, yet God is still working in his life.
God did punish Uzzah with death (2 Sam 6:6) when he touched the ark. This is a reminder that God’s judgment can fall heavily on those who sin. Another example would be Moses, who sinned against God and was heavily punished by not entering the Promised Land. These examples remind us that God is serious with sin and that it is not something that he takes lightly. The wages of sin is always death (though it is not often seen immediately). Christians are only rescued from that fate by the blood of Christ, who died in their place. Nevertheless, God often sees fit to discipline Christians for their sins, sometimes even with death (1 Cor. 11:30).
I am a sinner and thank God for examples like David. It shows you can be a Christian and still royally screw up but be forgiven. We have a God of second, third and fourth chances. I have been dealt with by God for my sin. I regret my decisions and consequences have followed but I know I am His and he still loves me. I too am a woman after God’s own heart.
Daniel: Thank you for the very well composed response to my concern about David. Someday, I may sit down with David and ask him directly about these things, perhaps you will be there at that scene as well.
The love and mercy and tolerance of Our Blessed and Holy Great God is truly beyond my ability to begin to comprehend, and I am in full agreement with your response. He knows our frame, and looks beyond… But, as you said, there will be a price to pay. Thank You for taking the time to respond.
Thank you for the information and guidance. I’m 75 and disabled which is a blessing, I get to study…. I love to know the “roots” of where, why & how …as it’s how we grow by knowing our passed in everything including, our faith; be it Judaism or Christianity. When in high school back before the War of 1812 …1st day of “World History Class,” I was the nutty kid who raised his hand asking the very dignified male teacher, “Why do we take this stuff?” After the class stopped giggling, he said, “That’s actually an excellent question. Basically we take ‘History’ lessons for 2 primary reasons: 1) it’s our roots and we need to know where, why and how we got to where we are today. Secondly, History repeats itself and we never seem to learn.” Boy, how right he was. If we can learn from history of wars, or conflicts, or the conduct of others, be it King David or Paul or Grampa Jones, then we may save ourselves a whole lot of grief. Amen
Again, thank you Mr. Pentimone
The two issues of David’s life that are so troubling. One that he never disciplined his children. 1Kings 1 vs 6. Then at the end of his life when he had written the wonderful Psalms and had experienced God’s grace when he was caught in the sun of census taking and given 3 choices of punishment he chose the one that costs the lives of 70k people. Then had the gall to tell God that he should bear the consequences of his sun not all the people that died. Very perplexing along with asking that his general Joan and Shimmei should be killed. How can that be God like?
Hi John,
Thanks for the comment. And you are correct. Certainly David did some troubling things. The Bible does not hold David up as perfect, but it does commend him for following God. Certainly David sinned greatly at times. However, I believe that one lesson that we learn from his life is to see a man who, despite his sins, returned to the Lord. He did not continue to pursue known sins, but repented of them when they were pointed out to him, and returned to the Lord. In this way, David is an example for us. Certainly, this can encourage us, when we consider our own sins and the proper response to those sins. I suggest that you also perhaps look at my article title ‘Brokenhearted’ which you can find by searching, as it describes David’s approach to sin (as well as how we should approach our sins).
Blessings,
Daniel
Sorry sin not sun and Joab not Joan
God does not use perfect people. David was not perfect. But he was a man of faith, and men of faith get into heaven. He wrote Scripture via the Holy Spirit, a feat most men cannot claim.
Am trying so hard to write something beautiful and great about the man David vs King Saul. I am trying to write out what made David so thick and so loved by God. How God showered all His Grace upon him and how David related so well with God. If l can receive more about David’ s attitude towards God. It will be very much appreciated. Thank you and God bless.
Hi David, I’d recommend that you look at the Psalms, where you can find a wealth of information about David’s relationship with God. For example, Psalms 30-34, and Psalm 25, stand out in my mind as excellent examples of David’s relationship with God. I hope this helps!
Which book in the bible or elsewhere can I read to follow the events of Jesus’ history. I am reading the bible but I am not good at organizing my thoughts and/or connecting events like most people seem to. If I can have the big picture then I can go back and relate events in the history.
Hi Jose,
I suggest that you begin with reading one of the Gospels, such as Matthew, Mark, Luke, or John. These books give the biography of Jesus and are a great place to being understanding the events of his life.
You might also check out the book, ‘Stranger on the Road to Emmaeus,’ which is a short book that gives a summary of the whole Bible and does a good job presenting the message of the Bible.
Daniel
I to am a woman after Gods own heart, however I choice to abuse alcohol and became a drunkard woman.The word says sin is fun for a season but after, comes destruction, although I knew who God was he dealt with my heart for about 5 years and I didn’t yeiild to his voice. One night I was arrested for driving drunk. I never had a record till I was 59, and thank God the judge had mercy on me. The guards walked me to the jail cell till I stood before the judge, As soon as the cell door closed with a sound I will never forget. God spoke to me and said if you ever drink again your life will be shortened. I repented and although I was forgiven I was tempted at times but never drank again. My belief is God loves us unconditionally however, there are consequences for our sin. God does not do this as a punishment but to make us stronger in the lord and to succeed the ministry God has for us in the future, So take your mistakes and learn from them, and go forward in God not backward. and the blessings will follow you . The bible says God is slow to anger but that doesn’t mean he never gets angry