On Being Remarkable

“Every situation is an opportunity to be boring or remarkable.” (Seth Godin)

I used to see the unexpected as a hindrance. Suppose a friend was sick and wasn’t able to have dinner with me as expected. In the past this would be an inconvenience – now my plans have to change. Or suppose that I suddenly find myself in need of something – having to rely on another person to help me out. Now that is not only inconvenient, but also potentially embarrassing. But as this quote reminds me, every situation is an opportunity to be remarkable. 

What does it look like to be remarkable? It normally means going above and beyond and doing the unexpected. So when a friend is sick and unable to make it, what can I do to show care? Can I bring a meal to them? Stop by and say hello? When I am in a predicament, am I going to indicate embarrassment and awkwardness that I must ask for help – or will I demonstrate grace, courtesy, and genuine appreciation (perhaps even write a thank-you card afterward)?

If every situation is an opportunity to be boring or remarkable, then what does boring look like? Boring is what is natural, what is easy, what everyone else does. Being remarkable, then, is not particularly difficult – if you pay attention and do outside of what is expected. It’s a simple mindset change – to change from what is comfortable and natural, to what is unexpected and thoughtful.

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